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| I'll be home for christmas.... |
[24 Dec 2011|12:48am] |
Jeff was glad to have Joel home. However, the fact that he had just left the hospital only to be called back...kinda pissed him off. Why? Cause he had sent the sitter home and now he had to load up the baby just so he could get his other baby. Getting the all the papers and stuff done and getting Joel they headed home. Jeff had never felt so exhausted.
"So if you ever get sick again around the holidays...I'll kill you," he grinned as they walked back inside the house, "oh and ...ta da...." he smirked pointing to the tree as he switched hands for carrying the baby in her car seat. "Me, Jasmine, and Molly all put it together for you...which...Jasmine is going to be pissed when she finds out you came home and she didn't get to be here for this." he grinned sitting the baby in her seat down on the couch, "and I can't tell you how glad I am she is asleep...these past couple of weeks have been hell on this little one."
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[03 Jan 2011|07:31pm] |
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Ugly cat snuck into our room and woke me up this morning....Jamie anytime you wanna come and get the cat...you are more than welcome to do so thanks.
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| I WANT, I NEED, I MUST HAVE! |
[09 Dec 2010|01:54am] |
I swear what is it about Christmas that turns children into greedy-toy-crazy-gremlins?
Every time I talk to my daughter Jasmine I have to hear about a zillion new toys she has to have. I mean I am talking dramatic melt down have-to-have. She gets like this every year; which I mean we spoil her around Christmas more than any other holiday, but she never gets everything on her list and still the list grows. Today we had a rather interesting chat and it went something like this...
Apple of my Eye: Oh bestest daddy I need a Sing-A-Ma-Jigs for Christmas
Bestest Daddy: What the hell is a Sing-a-ma-whatever?
Bright daughter: I am telling mommy and Joel you said hell. But they are these amazing and cute little toys that sing all kinds of songs when you squeeze them and I need them.
Guilty daddy: Okay no more swearing...and wait they sing when they are squeezed?
Excited daughter: Yes and I can sing with them while I roll around my zoobles you are going to get me too.
Dumbfounded daddy: Uh huh, wait what are zoobles and why do I have to get them for you?
Frustrated daughter: Daddy! Zoobles are only the greatest little creatures ever that I have been asking you for all December long! Daddy I need them all! And a kingdom home for them so they can roll and play with each other all the time when I am not able to play with them.
Rolling-eyes daddy: Yeah well how many of these thing are there?
sweet daughter: Like millions I guess.
Obvious daddy: Well you are not getting a million of anything.
Upset daughter: BUT I HAVE BEEN GOOD! WAY BETTER THAN LAST YEAR! I NEED THEM!!!!
exhausted daddy: Well maybe if you donate some of your old toys...
Distraught daughter: First you try to give me a new baby who will steal my toys! Now you want me to give them away! I GUESS I JUST WONT HAVE ANY TOYS! I HATE CHRISTMAS!
Ah, it's good to see that Me and Abri and Joel have been able to teach our little girl the true meaning of the season and instilled within her such wonderful virtues such as kindness, compassion, gratitude, and a sharing heat. God I dread to see the retirement home she tries to stick me in.
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| I just can't sleep...and I just ate a bag of popcorn |
[04 Nov 2010|12:58am] |
I can't sleep and I am eating junk food and watching re-runs of kitchen nightmares...what he hell is wrong with me?
Actually, I think I can probably answer that question myself. I am nervous and anxious and kinda worried/stressed. Joel and I have really been putting a lot of time, energy, and focus on having children and so there is that stress. However, one of the bigger stresses for me has been my daughter Jasmine.
I honestly didn't think she would have a problem with getting another sibling. I mean the baby wouldn't live with her and her mother it would live with me and Joel so it wouldn't be in her face all the time, but I think that is really part of the issue. Jasmine is afraid of being replaced I guess. She's only six but I've been trying to talk to her about it and all I get from her is the fact that she doesn't want a sibling and doesn't need one and my and Joel have a cat and a bunny so we don't need a baby. I have tried to play up the whole idea of a playmate...but she has Josh and Becca's kids for that she told me. God she is like her mother, she has a answer for everything. Joel, Abri and myself are all trying to ease her into this idea, but she's stubborn (and I am blaming her mother for that too.)
I remember when I found out about my sister Maggie. I was living with my aunt at the time and it wasn't until after Maggie was born did I come back to live with my mother and step-father. I hated Maggie when I found out about her and I think that is why I don't want Jasmine to feel that way about any kids Joel and I have. I don't want Jasmine to feel like she's being replaced or that bringing in any other kids into either my relationship with Joel or with any relationship with Abri we could ever run out of love for her. Like so many people I stumbled into this whole parenting thing with her and I am just lucky as hell that Abri is her mother because if not I am sure Jasmine wouldn't be as amazing as she has become.
There is time to bring Jasmine around before any other kids are brought into things, but it's a little bit of a source of worry for me.
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[06 Oct 2010|12:28pm] |
Yesterday me and Jasmine had a daddy daughter date-night. Once every other week she and I go out and just do something fun together and then the next week she gets to do that with Joel....yeah she's a little rotten but oh well.
Anyway, yesterday was my turn and this date like most dates before continued in about the same manner...we have dinner, head to the park, then get ice cream on the way home. It's simple and silly but it gives me time to just shower some extra one on one time with my little girl. On the way home she passed out in the backseat (with her ice cream...not pretty), but it gave me some time to think and reflect on the whole parent deal.
Kids scare me. I know that sounds crazy to some of you, but they really do...well at least babies scare me...once they get a little older and can you know talk it isn't so bad. I can remember one weekend I had Jasmine, and she was somewhere around the five month mark, she woke up screaming..not crying but screaming. I panicked and raced into her room and yeah still to this day....not really sure what that was all about and she never settled down until like six or seven the next morning. I guess what it boils down to is that whole fear of the unknown, I mean even after all that if Joel and I were to have a kid now I would be just as nervous. You try and prepare yourself as much as you can but at the end of the day there is no real preparation...you just kinda have to go with the flow of things....which is really annoying for someone like me who likes to order and stuff.
However, with all that ranting and rambling out of my system, I do love my daughter and I am glad she came along to bring a little chaos to my life.
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| facts |
[21 Jul 2010|09:19pm] |
 Jeffery Elias Davenport
Was Born in Melbourne Australia to 70s sculptor Elias Davenport and lawyer Margret Middleworth.
A at the age of nine his father was killed buy a drunk driver.
After graduating high school Davenport left Australia and moved to New York to try and build his musical singing career.
Though his singing career never took off he did learn a lot about the music industry and started his own production studio with life long friend and co-founder Joshua Sparks
In 2008 shortly after signing singer Joel Chapman tot he label as a producer the two men began seeing each other. Finally marrying in 2009.
Jeff has one child (Jasmine) from a previous relationship with singer Abrianna Britton.
Jeff and his partner currently reside in New York with their cat Prissy and their bunny Acorn.
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